Topic: 象有经验的朋友讨教,四个半月的baby送daycare是否太小?要给孩子打flu-shot吗?老师有耐心逗她玩吗?会抱着哄她吗?会不会不管她让她自己哭?会不会 @SF湾区华人论坛:SF湾区枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of San Francisco

枫下家园 / 家庭与子女 / 象有经验的朋友讨教,四个半月的baby送daycare是否太小?要给孩子打flu-shot吗?老师有耐心逗她玩吗?会抱着哄她吗?会不会不管她让她自己哭?会不会为了不让她哭使劲喂她,以至于overfeeding.都说小孩子过集体生活会有益身心健康,都有什么好处呀?
谢谢了! -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-12 {98} (#911028@0)

最好不要，一朋友是干这行的，她说有时烦的真想趁人不注意抽那些BB一巴掌，虽然BB们只有半岁左右。 -cher(cher); 2002-12-12 (#911056@0)

她肯定是不敢，但她这种心境肯定不会有耐心哄孩子，她可能不理睬哭闹的孩子，毕竟她一人要带3个BB呢。 -cher(cher); 2002-12-13 (#911701@0)

还是不要吧，孩子太小了，很容易生病的，还是自己带好。孩子生病真是很难手的。 -angelalu(小毛熊); 2002-12-12 (#911176@0)
看你自己怎么想了。自我还是忘我也不过就是一字之差。俺们小时候可是生出来56天就进托儿所的，按说不也一样长大了。只是当娘的每每讲起往事依旧泪水涟涟，那种苦就只有她自己知道了。好在现在不是当年了，你可以选择。 -babygc2000(丹鹭); 2002-12-12 (#911219@0)

我也心疼孩子,可是老公被laid off后去打工,经济压力大,我要是继续读书还能贷款,在家带孩子,我倒想呀.可我看着老公一人受累特心疼.我甚至不想念书,想和老公一起打工去. -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-12 (#911263@0)

DAYCARE 难道是FREE 的吗？不好意思，没有EXPERIENCE，偷问一声！ -liangwei(LIANGLIANG); 2002-12-13 (#911641@0)

看你的收入了,收入由低到高,daycare fee从$20/m到$1500/m.(base on my daycre center) -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-13 (#911687@0)

好处就是不娇生惯养，从而没有娇生惯养带来的一切坏毛病。:-) 我觉得你可以考虑请国内父母帮忙带一阵 -susse(不仙); 2002-12-13 (#911326@0)

才刚刚试着给婆婆申请,也不知将来能通过否,问题是现在就有一家daycare有空位,要知道daycare的空位很难得啊. -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-13 (#911333@0)

孩子太小，最大的问题是有什么还不能说。你看看能不能请daycare提供其他家长的联络方式，然后你和他们联系一下，了解一下这家 daycare的日常情况。再就是与其他有相关经验的家庭多交流。 -susse(不仙); 2002-12-13 (#911337@0)

是呀,这么小的孩子受委屈也不会说.daycare让我下星期开始先和她们一起带孩子,让孩子和老师都相互适应,我可以趁机观察一下,可谁知我不在时,她们怎么带孩子.我也想在rolia上向你们这些有经验的家长请教.谢谢. -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-13 (#911353@0)

As I know, A baby who's under 6 months can't take flu shot. -shwoman(开心); 2002-12-13 (#911497@0)
Baby younger than 6 months can't take flu shot. If the baby is breast-fed,usually she can't get flu easily as the others. When she is older, it is inevitable to get flu in daycare once a while. Based on my experience, most of the caregivers are 有耐心. They work not only because they need the job, but also because they love kids. You can ask the daycare for reference. You can also talk to the daycare about your concerns. I once had a list of questions that needs to be asked when interviewing the caregiver/daycare. -sunsun6(sunsun6); 2002-12-13 {451} (#911575@0)

多谢!我一直是母乳喂养她,要送daycare这两天就得开始给她往formular上过渡,你的意思还是等孩子半岁后再给她打flu-shot?她现在即使送daycare也不易得感冒? -wonderstone(放轻松); 2002-12-13 (#911581@0)

My doctor told me so.When your daughter is 6 months old, the flu season is almost over, so she may not need the shot this year. You can ask your doctor for advice. 往formular上过渡 takes some time. My friend used to put breast milk in a bottle and leave it to daycare, so the baby still could be "breast-fed". -sunsun6(sunsun6); 2002-12-13 {293} (#911613@0)

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