Topic: 问个不很雅观，但极重要的问题 @SF湾区华人论坛:SF湾区枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of San Francisco

是不太容易，你不如每次让她自己先擦。然后你检查一下。不干净就告诉她应该怎么办。应该很快就能会的。 -heian(黑暗天使㊣); 2002-11-28 (#881776@0)

我女儿4岁开始自己3岁不到就开始教她，因为要上幼儿园了。开始不行，但是很快小便就没有问题，现在大便也擦得很干净，但她一直要我们检查她。我就只好每天检查，她也是从来不在学校大便。在中国就这样 -boer_ioi(我到了爱城); 2002-11-28 (#882767@0)

我认为这不是大问题。养孩子没有容易的。我觉得只要你女儿自己能擦，在幼儿园可以对付紧急情况，不是太干净也没关系。慢慢会好的。 -rollor(Rollor); 2002-11-28 (#881841@0)
我女儿在快四岁的时候开始学着自己擦,定的目标就是四岁学会了, 如何如何奖励. 我很详细地教了她, 如何撕纸,如何叠, 手从后边进,从前往后揩. 之后的工作就是每次监督指导,及时夸奖,然后检查一下. 她很快就学会了,而且擦得很干净. -ingridchao(Ingrid); 2002-11-28 {184} (#881921@0)
I agree with Rollor. Just remember to wash it before going to bed every day. -farmer(农夫®); 2002-11-28 (#881970@0)
do not do it any more. there is a law in canada. if your daughter tell somebody that her dad touch her butt, you would lose your right to raise your daughter. -hunt(hunt); 2002-11-28 (#882796@0)

你是真懂还是假懂啊？美国什么样我不知道，这里是加拿大。孩子在六岁或七岁（记不清了）前可以跟大人进异性更衣室，当然可以由大人更衣擦屁股了。 -rollor(Rollor); 2002-11-28 (#882816@0)

do not let your daughter tell her teacher. it did happen before in canada. you can see child's butt, but do not touch it or otherwise do not let others know it. -hunt(hunt); 2002-11-28 (#882847@0)

麻烦你找找原文出处可以吗？父母要给小孩子洗澡，洗澡包括全身上下各个部位。如果按你的说法，单身父亲没法养女儿了，除非让女儿脏死。母亲动儿子呢？ -rollor(Rollor); 2002-11-29 (#883969@0)

training her to do by herself as early as possible. -hunt(hunt); 2002-11-29 (#883983@0)

WHY? What's wrong with helping her? How early is early enough? -rollor(Rollor); 2002-11-29 (#884285@0)

everybody did that, but keep mute, especially to the teachers and community workers. different culture, different way. -hunt(hunt); 2002-11-29 (#884892@0)

how sure are you on this case? everybody should be responsible for his post, if you don't know, keep silent, no one would treat you as an idiot, but if you don't know and you blah blah blah, then ... -glover(noname); 2002-11-29 (#885215@0)
Who do you refer to by "everybody"? What do you mean by "did that but keep mute"? 社工和教师不要说不能碰异性儿童的私处，连同性的也不能碰。但家长则可以。否则，孩子企不要臭死？ -rollor(Rollor); 2002-11-30 (#886762@0)

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