本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛(1) 你说的这些难道真的需要信了那子虚乌有的神才能做到和得到吗?
How do you know 那神是”子虚乌有”的? Please present your reasons and proof! If you can prove that you are right, I am willing to give up my faith! If you cannot prove it, don’t say this anymore from now on and in the future in Rolia! gaga88 just presented his testimony and share with the readers! Why you made such a disrespectful comment in reply to his posting?
(2) 中华的道家，佛家关于修身齐家的道理比鬼子们的基督深奥多了，这真是外来的和尚好念经啊
In gaga88’s testimony, he talked nothing about 中华的道家/佛家关于修身齐家 or 外来的和尚好念经. This is your own statement; please elaborate and substantiate it.
(3) 中华的道家，佛家关于修身齐家的道理
The founder of Buddhism Siddartha Guatama, was born around 560 BC in north of India … ; Buddism was originated from India. Regarding “中华的道家，佛家,” you mean “中华的道家和中华的佛家”or “中华的道家和佛家?” There is a difference. How much do you know about 中华(include?)佛家关于修身齐家的道理? Please share with the readers! Please also elaborate about 中华的道家关于修身齐家的道理. I would like to learn from you!
(4) 比鬼子们的基督深奥多了!
This is your own statement, so please share with the readers your reason(s) of 比鬼子们的基督深奥多了! Why are you calling 鬼子们? What about if 鬼子们 call you “Eastern-Asia-Sick-People?” Do you mean 深奥 (according to your statement) is better? Are you sure?
(5) 这真是外来的和尚好念经啊
Who are the “和尚?” Are you 外来 or “和尚”外来? Please elaborate about what you mean by “好念经!”
(6) 唉，信主信的连母语也不会用了
Unfortunately, you are assuming again: the fact is that my computer doesn’t have Chinese language software, therefore I have to write in English and use cut/paste function to get Chinese characters.
(7) 你们到了海外信洋教的确实需要好好补一下自己传统文化的缺失
How do you know “你们” don’t or haven’t kept “自己传统文化?” Can you define what “自己传统文化的缺失” is? If you don’t know enough about “你们,” “洋教,” “传统文化” and “缺失,” you are not in a position to make this statement. If you do, please share with the readers including me.
(8) 我的表达很得体，意思明确，针对事而非人; 我看对象采用不同style没觉不妥
If you can provide me with reasonable explanations for all my above and below questions respectfully, I will accept your above statement.
(9) 不象你上来就一副教训人的样子，我就不明白对于网上陌生的ID，你有什么资格，就凭信了个洋主子？
You expressed your comment on gaga88’s posting disrespectfully. Why cannot I express my comment on your comment? Who is my 洋主子 (according to your definition)? I don’t have any 主子 above me or any 洋主子 above me.
(10) 有事说事，别整虚头八脑的
Why you said, and what is “有事说事，别整虚头八脑的?” Please elaborate with substances!
(11) 我说中华文化里修身齐家的道理强于基督教，你不服？
I didn’t comment anything about 中华文化里修身齐家的道理 vs 基督教. Why you twist to make such a statement?
I didn’t say anything about “服 or 不服,” so why you said, “你不服?” It is you who said, “你不服?” You sound you are inviting quarrels: It’s fine with me, but please argue with “substances.”
(12) 你们这一大群中国人，国内给党妈洗脑，出来又迫不急待接受再次洗脑，但对于自己老祖宗传下来的东西则视如粪土
This is a very disrespectful, distasteful and insulting comment! How do you know it’s “一大群”, not a small group? How do you know “你们这一大群中国人” were brainwashed by 党妈? How do you know “出来又迫不急待接受再次洗脑?” What do you mean by 洗脑? How do you know “对于自己老祖宗传下来的东西则视如粪土?” Please elaborate and substantiate your entire statement in (12).

My final comments:

(1) Those who are humble, respectful, open-minded, objective, logical … eager to learn and grow, will benefit themselves and spouses/children (if they have).
(2) Those who are assuming/ignorant/stubborn/arrogant/narrow-minded/subjective/fanatic/emotional ... will do the opposite.
(3) I personally believe that we all should try to be like those who are in Group (1), as I have seen the benefits they generate in their own lives and the lives of their family members and people around them.

2011-11-04 at Toronto for Rolia 心灵感悟
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