Indenpendence DOESN'T mean to isolate yourself, or to refuse help/teamwork. It means to stand on your own heel. In the context of family, it means to be a partner instead of a pet/slave. It means the other half needs you as much as you need him/her.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-10-29(#7024408@0)
Misinterpretation (or even distortion) doesn't serve any purpose. IMO, this is often the reason why some simple debates in this forum ended up becoming meaninglessly long.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-10-29(#7024423@0)
Misinterpretation (or even distortion) doesn't serve any purpose. IMO, this is often the reason why some simple debates in this forum ended up becoming meaninglessly long. -cca(不归的如来佛); 18:03 (#7024423@0)
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-10-29(#7024429@0)
very true..但把自己放在一个vulnerable的position...有时候是必须的
-mikesmith(老猫);
2011-10-29(#7024457@0)
If you are not vulnerable, you are not really in love. That's the intrinsic risk of love. Ultimately, one feels safe when assured that love is in good hands. Being independent means assuming equal responsibility of
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-10-29{48}(#7024476@0)
What I meant by "independent" has nothing to do with money/employment -- a working woman is not necessarily more independent than a housewife. -cca(不归的如来佛); 10.24 11:36 (#7009733@0)
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-10-30(#7025229@0)